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Title: I Need Realtionship Help :p
Description: idk whats happening


bbgurl123 - September 17, 2006 03:14 PM (GMT)
ok here i go lol...there was this little dance thing at my high school
and me and my boyfriend were all lovey dovey (like cuddling) lol for a while and i ask him to dance cause i was all in that mood to have fun and like he gets mad... he always gets in these moods.. and then to makes me more mad hes starts talkin to this girl i dont like thats a W*h*o*r*e and shes all flirting with him and stuff while i was dancing with my friend suzi...my friends cant rele give me advice and they are rele good friends with him ..HELP i soo sick of this.. can anyone help me on what i would doo give me your honest opinion! thanks xoxo

inyoureyes - September 17, 2006 07:13 PM (GMT)
maybe should keep your eyes open for another boyfriend.

i wouldn't really know, but maybe he's just not good enough for you. good luck!!!

France - September 17, 2006 10:32 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (bbgurl123 @ Sep 17 2006, 11:14 AM)
ok here i go lol...there was this little dance thing at my high school
and me and my boyfriend were all lovey dovey (like cuddling) lol for a while and i ask him to dance cause i was all in that mood to have fun and like he gets mad... he always gets in these moods.. and then to makes me more mad hes starts talkin to this girl i dont like thats a W*h*o*r*e and shes all flirting with him and stuff while i was dancing with my friend suzi...my friends cant rele give me advice and they are rele good friends with him ..HELP i soo sick of this.. can anyone help me on what i would doo give me your honest opinion! thanks xoxo


Are you being serious?

bbgurl123 - September 17, 2006 11:05 PM (GMT)
yeah it may sound lame but thats a G rated verison.. lol but it way much more then that (didnt think people care about my problems soo i made it short lol)


but hes been my b-friend for 2 year hes liek my 1st love what do i do
we like always fight im not too good with this cause i havnt been with any one esle in a while but what should i do thanks oxox

- some of you are older and more experinece thats why im asking thanks! xox

France - September 18, 2006 04:00 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (bbgurl123 @ Sep 17 2006, 07:05 PM)
yeah it may sound lame but thats a G rated verison.. lol but it way much more then that (didnt think people care about my problems soo i made it short lol)


but hes been my b-friend for 2 year hes liek my 1st love what do i do
we like always fight im not too good with this cause i havnt been with any one esle in a while but what should i do thanks oxox

- some of you are older and more experinece thats why im asking thanks! xox

Move on ..... easier said than done I'm sure. You don't want to be in a relationship in which you two are always fighting. I'm sure a lot of the women in here can tell you stories about idiot guys they've dated, and hopefully most of them can tell you about the great guys they've been with. I have been with some of the most ridiculous sh*theads one could imagine, and it seemed to get worse as I got older (you really wouldn't believe some of the stories I have to tell). I'm lucky to have found a great guy, but the rocky ride to get to him wasn't so pleasant.

In the end though, it's not going to matter what anyone says to you. You're the one with the most time and emotion invested in the relationship, so only you truly know what's right. Having said that, I would think that you should get out there and enjoy your time with your friends, and if you meet a guy along the way, then great, but don't waste your time with this one any longer.

Soccerma - September 18, 2006 02:34 PM (GMT)
YOU'RE STILL IN HIGH SCHOOL. MY GOODNESS, GIRL, YOU HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO HAVE A SERIOUS BOYFRIEND WHEN YOU GET OLDER. FOR NOW, JUST HAVE FUN BEING YOUNG AND FREE. SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FRIENDS. YOU DON'T NEED A BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW. ENJOY YOUR YOUTH AND DON'T BE TIED DOWN. YOU'RE TOO YOUNG.

ElliottCat101 - September 18, 2006 06:18 PM (GMT)
Without knowing you or your boyfriend I don't know how good of a judge I can be, but from the story you told I have just one piece of advice...

.... Dump him now! He doesn't seem nearly as interested in this relationship as you do. Find someone better.

Whatever you end up doing, :goodluck:

noira - September 19, 2006 04:12 AM (GMT)
I agree with some of the other posters. Your BF doesn't seem very interested in keeping you happy and have things goo smooth.
If he gets upset and talks to another girl when you ask him to dance, it shows some disrespect towards you.
At your age people seldom stay together forever and maybe this relationship has run its course.
I am sure it is pretty painful to realize that maybe the time has come to part ways.
2 years is a long time, why not take a break from things, spend some time with your friends and see what happens after a month or so. You might even enjoy not haveing to worry about his moodswings.
Good luck and give an update some time
:)




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